Post by toyang on Oct 24, 2005 13:58:18 GMT 9
The guy who loves his mom will be a good boyfriend. Why? Because if he
has high respect for his mother, he will have high respect for women.
(Ehem...)
Don't give everything away. Leave some things a mystery. Guys love
conquest. If you already give your all, wala nang "something to look
forward to" sa relationship n'yo. And the guy will become kampante.
Assure him of your love and faithfulness, but warn him too: "Umayos ka
diyan! You can lose me anytime..."
BIG PAGKAKAIBA: What a girl needs most is love. What a guy needs most is
respect. The most important thing for a girl is her heart. For a guy
its his ego.
Give your man his own time and space. Let him have his time for his
friends, sports, family, self, and God. The relationship will grow old
quickly if lagi kayong magkasama. Give him time to miss you and you'll
see how he will love you more. If the guy naman is obsessed and just
wants to be with you all the time, tell him you cant respect a "puppy"
for long.
Do things differently anytime para kahit matagal na kayo, there is
always something fresh and new. Variety is the spice of life. Exciting
baga.
"Making love" is better than just "having sex". And true love "waits".
Save your precious "gift" on your wedding night. Di nagiging tama ang
mali, just because uso naman and everyone's doing it. Be iba.
Discover something you both like to do and enjoy it TWO-gether. Doon
naman sa mga bagay na magkaiba ang hilig n'yo, compliment each other by
learning about it kahit konti. If you love someone, 'yung effort n'yo to
try will go a looooong way to understanding him later pag may
disagreement kayo.
Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny, no? Maybe, but its very powerful.
Pag may takot sa Diyos ang boyfriend ,mo, kampante ka na di ka n'ya
lolokohin, because he knows God sees everything he does in secret. Ikaw
na ang magkusa that before you part after date, with hold hands and eyes
closed, pray to God to bless you two. Believe me it's effective.
Kailanman, di corny ang magdasal.
Believe in "Magic". Kahit di minsan practical o walang logical na
dahilan, o matrabaho, o sounds crazy sa iba, do sweet little things for
the one you love kahit magmukha ka nang timang. The memories will be fun
to recall later in life. The corniest song o gift o letter (aminin mo)
ang laging kabog!
True love brings out the best in each other. Find something good in your
boyfriend and nurture it, encourage it, and syempre, ENJOY it.
It's healthy to fight. Doon n'yo lang maaayos ang differences n'yo at
nate-test ang tatag ng relationship. Doon mo rin sya makikilala ng
mabuti. It's called test of fire. Di mahalaga how dalas you fight. What
matters is how often you make bati. Mas nakakatakot yung relasyong
sobrang perfect at laging masaya. One big fight and that's it! And di ba
mas kilig 'yung malambing na "Uy, bati na tayo..."
But don't overdo it. Kakapagod naman din na lagi na lang manuyo o
magsori. Choose the battles na papatulan mo. The little issues,
palampasin na. Don't sweat the small stuff.
Daraan sa iba't ibang stages ang love especially pag matagal na kayo.
Grow with it. Don't expect him to be like nu'ng una 'coz like a student,
di na ituturo sa Grade 6 'yung lessons na pang-Grade 2. Change WILL
happen... you both will change and your love WILL change, too. It's up
to you na lang if the change will be for the better or for the worse.
Life is about growth. Grow with it.
When breakup comes and it's time to say goodbye, don't doubt the love
just because it didn't last. May mga bagay sa buhay na di man
nagtatagal, it doesn't mean di na ito totoo. Some good things are just
never meant to last forever. Okay lang 'yon. Bless the parting and move
on. (Mastery)
Expect tears, sorrow, sleepless nights, and pain. 'Ika nga, "it's when
you hurt the worse that you love the MOST." Kung di ka willing masaktan,
wag ka na lang magmahal. (Sapul)
Life is a balance, and love is both holding on and letting go. Know when
to fight for your man and when to let him go. God will guide you kung
anong dapat gawin sa kung anong sitwasyon. So dapat mataas ang signal ng
langit sa cellfone ng puso mo to know His wisdom. (Sana mabasa mo ito...
oo, ikaw...)
Do things right. Di totoong masarap ang bawal gaya ng sabi ng iba. Kasi
may kabayaran 'yon later. Corny ang madali. Paghirapan mong gawin ang
tama at totoo, and one day, ikaw rin ang aani ng bunga nito.
DATE IDEAS: A walk in the park; along the bay area watching the sunset;
biking sa big, open spaces; stargaze at night sa ibabaw ng bubong; jog
at 5 a.m. and wait for the sunrise; singing with a guitar (or a walkman)
under a tree shade sharing hopia and siomai (yikes!). Wag lagi sa mall.
Involve nature. The best things in life pa rin ay free. Di kailangan
gumasta ng malaki para sumaya o maging romantic. Be creative.
Don't NAG. Sabi ng don't nag e! Sabi ko don't nag, don't nag, don't
naaaaaaggg!!!
'Yung effort, sa kahit anong gawain o effort mo ay laging two billion
ganda points 'yan. Do little surprises every now and then PARA SO HAPPY TWO-GETHER!
has high respect for his mother, he will have high respect for women.
(Ehem...)
Don't give everything away. Leave some things a mystery. Guys love
conquest. If you already give your all, wala nang "something to look
forward to" sa relationship n'yo. And the guy will become kampante.
Assure him of your love and faithfulness, but warn him too: "Umayos ka
diyan! You can lose me anytime..."
BIG PAGKAKAIBA: What a girl needs most is love. What a guy needs most is
respect. The most important thing for a girl is her heart. For a guy
its his ego.
Give your man his own time and space. Let him have his time for his
friends, sports, family, self, and God. The relationship will grow old
quickly if lagi kayong magkasama. Give him time to miss you and you'll
see how he will love you more. If the guy naman is obsessed and just
wants to be with you all the time, tell him you cant respect a "puppy"
for long.
Do things differently anytime para kahit matagal na kayo, there is
always something fresh and new. Variety is the spice of life. Exciting
baga.
"Making love" is better than just "having sex". And true love "waits".
Save your precious "gift" on your wedding night. Di nagiging tama ang
mali, just because uso naman and everyone's doing it. Be iba.
Discover something you both like to do and enjoy it TWO-gether. Doon
naman sa mga bagay na magkaiba ang hilig n'yo, compliment each other by
learning about it kahit konti. If you love someone, 'yung effort n'yo to
try will go a looooong way to understanding him later pag may
disagreement kayo.
Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny, no? Maybe, but its very powerful.
Pag may takot sa Diyos ang boyfriend ,mo, kampante ka na di ka n'ya
lolokohin, because he knows God sees everything he does in secret. Ikaw
na ang magkusa that before you part after date, with hold hands and eyes
closed, pray to God to bless you two. Believe me it's effective.
Kailanman, di corny ang magdasal.
Believe in "Magic". Kahit di minsan practical o walang logical na
dahilan, o matrabaho, o sounds crazy sa iba, do sweet little things for
the one you love kahit magmukha ka nang timang. The memories will be fun
to recall later in life. The corniest song o gift o letter (aminin mo)
ang laging kabog!
True love brings out the best in each other. Find something good in your
boyfriend and nurture it, encourage it, and syempre, ENJOY it.
It's healthy to fight. Doon n'yo lang maaayos ang differences n'yo at
nate-test ang tatag ng relationship. Doon mo rin sya makikilala ng
mabuti. It's called test of fire. Di mahalaga how dalas you fight. What
matters is how often you make bati. Mas nakakatakot yung relasyong
sobrang perfect at laging masaya. One big fight and that's it! And di ba
mas kilig 'yung malambing na "Uy, bati na tayo..."
But don't overdo it. Kakapagod naman din na lagi na lang manuyo o
magsori. Choose the battles na papatulan mo. The little issues,
palampasin na. Don't sweat the small stuff.
Daraan sa iba't ibang stages ang love especially pag matagal na kayo.
Grow with it. Don't expect him to be like nu'ng una 'coz like a student,
di na ituturo sa Grade 6 'yung lessons na pang-Grade 2. Change WILL
happen... you both will change and your love WILL change, too. It's up
to you na lang if the change will be for the better or for the worse.
Life is about growth. Grow with it.
When breakup comes and it's time to say goodbye, don't doubt the love
just because it didn't last. May mga bagay sa buhay na di man
nagtatagal, it doesn't mean di na ito totoo. Some good things are just
never meant to last forever. Okay lang 'yon. Bless the parting and move
on. (Mastery)
Expect tears, sorrow, sleepless nights, and pain. 'Ika nga, "it's when
you hurt the worse that you love the MOST." Kung di ka willing masaktan,
wag ka na lang magmahal. (Sapul)
Life is a balance, and love is both holding on and letting go. Know when
to fight for your man and when to let him go. God will guide you kung
anong dapat gawin sa kung anong sitwasyon. So dapat mataas ang signal ng
langit sa cellfone ng puso mo to know His wisdom. (Sana mabasa mo ito...
oo, ikaw...)
Do things right. Di totoong masarap ang bawal gaya ng sabi ng iba. Kasi
may kabayaran 'yon later. Corny ang madali. Paghirapan mong gawin ang
tama at totoo, and one day, ikaw rin ang aani ng bunga nito.
DATE IDEAS: A walk in the park; along the bay area watching the sunset;
biking sa big, open spaces; stargaze at night sa ibabaw ng bubong; jog
at 5 a.m. and wait for the sunrise; singing with a guitar (or a walkman)
under a tree shade sharing hopia and siomai (yikes!). Wag lagi sa mall.
Involve nature. The best things in life pa rin ay free. Di kailangan
gumasta ng malaki para sumaya o maging romantic. Be creative.
Don't NAG. Sabi ng don't nag e! Sabi ko don't nag, don't nag, don't
naaaaaaggg!!!
'Yung effort, sa kahit anong gawain o effort mo ay laging two billion
ganda points 'yan. Do little surprises every now and then PARA SO HAPPY TWO-GETHER!